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1) I thought this was very well put.

2) It's important that people defend the right to free speech (including the right to "misgender" people). It's important that people say loud and clear what is factually true, and don't allow themselves to be browbeaten into repeating things they know to be false. And it's important that the victims of gender identity ideology are not ignored (are we ever going to see a film or TV documentary about a detransitioner?).

But I want to point out that the people who are publicly critical of gender identity ideology have a variety of motives. Some people genuinely believe in free speech, some people have a genuine commitment to the truth, some people genuinely want to prevent people being harmed.

But also, some people are feminists - many of whom are just rightfully angry that the rights of women and girls have been ignored in various ways, and some of whom take "all men are rapists" as both their starting point and their conclusion for everything they think. Some people believe that God created men to be men, and women to be women. Some people just don't like it when people don't conform to gender norms. And some people just enjoy being mean and abusive towards people, and transgender people, being "weirdos", are exactly to sort of people bullies like to pick on.

When the gender-critical feminist movement took off I took an interest in it. I've read The End of Gender, Irreversible Damage, Trans, Material Girls and Tomboy, I subscribed to Graham Lineham's Substack, Kathleen Stock's Substack and the Substacks detransitioners such as Michelle Alleva. There was a time when I would describe myself as a gender-critical feminist. I hate bullshit, I could see that a lot of what trans rights activists believed was bullshit, and I was happy that people were standing up to them and speaking truth to power.

However, I also noticed that sometimes a well-known gender-critical feminist would say something that was demonstrably untrue. As time went by, I saw less and less people in the gender-critical movement on Substack and on Twitter who were motivated by a belief in free-speech, a desire to find out the truth, and/or empathy with people who were being harmed, and more and more people who had other motivations - people who had zero interest in free speech for people who disagreed with them, people who were happy to spread lies as long as the lies made the other side look bad, and people who had zero empathy for anyone who was gender-nonconforming.

My attitude now is "a plague on both your houses". The public discourse on BOTH sides is dominated by the sort of narrow-minded, self-righteous, shouty people I have no respect for. I also believe that "transgender people" are a diverse group, and any attempt to generalise about them will misunderstand many people.

You quote J. K. Rowling. She deserves praise for having stood up against the trans rights activists when no-one else was doing so. I know she is a feminist. But it's clear, looking at her Twitter, that a part of her motivation now is that she just enjoys being mean to people online. She is genuinely witty person and every time she says something mean about the hated outgroup she will get tons of attention, likes and praise. She's a "mean girl" type. It's a consistent part of her character. Before transgender people were the hated outgroup it was Brexiteers and before that it was Scots Nationalists. And she doesn't actually believe in free speech:

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/welcome-to-the-world-you-created-j-k-rowling

On International Asexuality Day (April 6th) she wrote "Happy International Fake Oppression Day to everyone who wants complete strangers to know they don't fancy a shag".

Why did she do that? If you can "Call yourself whatever you like" why can't you call yourself asexual? If someone has no interest in sex, what harm does it do anyone if they are open about that fact? What's the difference between saying that asexual people should shut up and pretend to be normal, and saying that gay people should shut up and pretend to be normal? Well, the difference is that gay people have widespread social acceptance and legal protections against hate speech, and asexual people don't.

Actually, I'm sure 2025 Rowling has different views to 2019 Rowling. Spending every day on social media getting abuse from one side and praise from the other side has radicalised her. Many such cases!

It would be nice if people could notice that a lot of the anti-trans movement is motivated by bigotry and meanness, and it would be nice if people could notice that at the same time as noticing that some of the beliefs of the trans-rights movement are nonsensical. Social media has done a good job of putting us all in filter bubbles where we only get exposed to one side's "truth".

3) I read Mania by Lionel Shriver recently and I loved it! I'm planning to read it for a second time soon. I think you might like it.

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Neil's avatar

"whether or not it happens or not" has at minimum got a bonus 'or not' and the sentence as a whole arguably has more fundamental problems.

Enjoyed Bigfeet. The humbler but much larger cousins of the Proudfeet!

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