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Katie Finlayson's avatar

What I find most interesting in all this discourse is that it is framed as "smartphones" when the actual discussion is usually then about social media, porn, or something else that is just as easily accessed on a tablet, laptop or PC. In fact in Adolescence the internet influence wasn't portrayed as mainly phone based, it was the computer in a bedroom. Nonetheless this 'medium' aspect is relevant because a phone is portable, ever present, and hard to see what someone else is accessing. But it isn't the whole story, and discussions that centre around smartphones feel like they are probably not clear enough on what they are proposing - the framing is off.

(That awareness of individual isolation being a concern is also the key to what we've attempted to do as parents - encompass all of the concerns with a simple principle of access in public. No electronics upstairs, so whatever they're doing, they're doing it where everyone else can at least vaguely see what sort of thing is happening. We have also had other rules of engagement which fall on the stricter side of things - but it's the staying involved with what they're up to that I think is the most powerful principle.)

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Michelle Taylor's avatar

For me, I worry about smartphone bans etc because for the weird kids it's a lifeline to be able to contact their people. Not to mention all the assistive apps that make life with vision and hearing defects, or existing in a second language, easier.

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